That's what we had been asking ourselves last fall. We were prepared to really look deep into the issue after the turn of the new year (i.e now) and come to a decision by spring. However, in a shocking revelation that still remains a mystery, we never got the chance to debate the issue. And oh what a debate it would have been. Me, 90% sure that the answer was a firm no. She, 51% sure that the answer should be yes. The stage was set for many tense hours of deliberation after the kids were in bed, and for coded comments at strategic moments to try and sway the other party.
But alas, we were robbed of all of this, and found out in October that we are expecting a baby in July. The 4th to be exact, though these things are never exact.
Will we be finding out if it is a boy or a girl? No.
Do we hope it is a boy this time? Having three girls already, it can't be denied. But mostly we hope for a healthy baby and a safe delivery.
Recently, the midwife practice that has delivered all of our children to date had to close, for myriad reasons. Basically it boils down to the fact that our technologically advanced society trusts little beyond machines and medications when it comes to having children. Anyway, that leaves us with some difficult decisions, and the possibility of having no other choice but to have this baby in a hospital that is as "hospital-ly" as they get, which is far from what we want. Your prayers for patience and discernment would be appreciated.